Hi All! My life changed upside down when my husband had a stroke 2 years ago and became paralysed. I took leave from work and then decided to quit when I realised I could not go back. I've been struggling to adapt to the role of a full-time carer for a dependent. Night care is the hardest, must wake up 1 or 2x for toilet, or changing diaper. It's difficult to get night helper, and it's expensive. Our children can't help, they have young toddlers and working.
Anyone has a good night care arrangement to share? It's long-term for us so I am mindful of cost too. Thanksss.